I hate you, Valentine’s Day
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About the Author: Julie Power is a writer and editor with experience in both the United States and Australia. After living in the United States for 16 years, she recently returned to live in Sydney with her husband and twin boys (9 years old).
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I could not agree more. This year, my husband lovingly asked “What do you want for Valentines day?” I replied “A break.” There goes my gift. Should be interesting to see what my kids (a nearly two-year-old and newborn) cook up, or should I say, will require me to clean up.
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I agree. When I met my husband, I stopped celebrating valentine’s day. I decided every day is, or should be, valentine’s day. Every woman (and man) should be treated that way. Aren’t we supposed to be nice and show love to our loved ones every day? Maybe do something extra special on birthdays maybe? Never understood the holiday really… I don’t see why kids need to make cards for everyone in their class.
Mort de rire!!! This is hilarious, Julie, and TRUE!!!! I especially love the bit about expresssions of love amidst the rough and tumble of life. ENOUGH already, with the glossing over….Definitely going to pass this on to my friends.
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Thank you Elissa. Now that’s the sort of real sentiment you don’t find on a Hallmark card. Thanks for your comment and feedback. I wish you all the love in the world, every day of the year. Julie
Valentine’s day has roots back to the 18th century, it has been an American school time tradition at least in my lifetime. I guess we should cease this because your sons don’t care for the holiday?
If you find it so objectionable you could request that your children be excused. Better yet ask your kids if they would like to sit out in the hallway during the next Valentines day party to prove your principles.
It’s a fun holiday, to assume that parents are sending expressions of love to another child is just a weird stretch. I don’t understand why some adults try to suck all the fun out of a holiday in an attempt to show how intelligent and “above” they are about the rest of us poor common masses.
Send yourself your own ridiculous valentine. Seriously.
Though I agree with most of what you said about the forced celebration of Valentine’s Day, I do not agree that it is not worth the effort of reaching out to family/friends to wish them love and happiness (whatever that may take…Chocolate kisses, for me) on any day.
If you want to be bitter and angry about receiving cards that say “I love you,” I feel sorry for you and your children. What kind of message are you sending others implying that just because it is Valentine’s Day it doesn’t mean anything.
My family doesn’t like to overdue religious holidays, and so the “Hallmark” holidays give us the perfect opportunity to send out family cards (as they don’t make many affordable “Happy Spring” cards, but they do make very affordable “Happy Valentine’s Day” cards.
The list-serve you are referring to leads me to believe that we all had too much time on our hands, cooped up in our homes, and we forgot to look at the fact that the time thinking about or making cards was supposed to be fun for you and your children. If you don’t like, don’t do it, but PLEASE don’t take the fun out of it for those of us who cherish the opportunity to reach out to others, whether or not it is hokey.
Thanks Laurel and Mary for your comments. We embrace all views here at MomstoWork.
You do realize that some of my comments were tongue in cheek right? I was laughing at the gender divisions and the seriousness with which some people take their card making.
All the moms with girls say their kids love the holiday. Boys do up to a point. But once they get to about seven or eight, they show no interest. That isn’t to say that boys are incapable of being emotional, loving and mushy. As I write, I am looking at a bunch of home made hearts and cards from my boys to me. They are precious. I will keep them.
BTW, I am quite ready to own to up to cultural differences being at play. I am from Australia, which has never embraced Valentine’s Day in the same way. It is a holiday for adults.
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